The relationship problems no one really teaches men how to handle.
A free 30-minute online relationship workshop for men
A private 30 minute live workshop for men who want to better understand what’s happening in their relationship and what they can actually do about it.
The workshop runs for 30 minutes and there is no replay.
- A better understanding of why the problem keeps happening.
- What may actually be going on underneath the behaviour you’re seeing.
- What you can influence in the pattern.
- Something practical to think about or do differently at home.
- A different perspective on common relationship patterns.
This isn’t another relationship webinar.
- No hour long presentation.
- No generic advice you could have Googled.
- No awkward introductions.
- No being asked to tell a room full of strangers your life story.
“I knew I needed help, but I wasn’t going to some office to lie on a lounge and be told I was hard done by as a kid. With Matilda it was real. None of the fairy floss. Straight up, and I like that.”
One relationship problem. 30 minutes. Something useful to take home.
Each week, we rotate through one of three topics:
Conflict
Why you keep having the same fights and why nothing ever seems to get resolved.
Intimacy
Where the sex and connection went and what may actually be happening underneath it.
Triggers
Why seemingly small things create such big reactions between you.
These aren’t generic relationship webinars. We take one problem men are dealing with every day and break down what is actually happening, what you may not be seeing and what you can start doing differently.
You can sit back and listen. You can submit an anonymous question before the workshop, or ask one during the Q&A at the end. There’s no pressure to speak.
What happens in 30 minutes?
Each workshop focuses on one of the three rotating relationship topics.
I’ll break down what I commonly see happening with men and couples around that problem, why the obvious explanation often isn’t the whole story, and what tends to keep the pattern going.
Then we’ll look at what you can control and what you can start doing differently.
We finish with Q&A. You can submit a question anonymously before the workshop or ask it live.
This isn’t individual relationship coaching and we’re not trying to solve someone’s entire relationship in 30 minutes. It’s designed to help you understand the problem better and see what you may not have been able to see from inside it.
Some of the questions and conversations inside these workshops can be personal. So there’s one non negotiable rule:
stays in the room.
- No sharing another man’s story.
- No screenshots.
- No identifying information.
- No replay.
You never have to speak or share anything personally.
Privacy matters.
We can talk about her. The work starts with you.
We can absolutely talk about your wife or partner.
We can look at why she may be reacting the way she is.
We can look at common relationship patterns and how your choices can influence them.
But Elite Alpha is built around Radical Responsibility.
That means we’re not spending the workshop listing everything she needs to change. We focus on what you can understand, influence and change.
Your communication.
Your reactions.
Your behaviour.
Your leadership inside the relationship.
That’s where things can start shifting.
Matilda Wand · Founder, Elite Alpha
I’m a firefighter, former Australian representative athlete, coach and founder of Elite Alpha. For more than a decade I’ve worked with high performing people around behaviour, communication, relationships and the patterns that affect their personal and professional lives.
I created these workshops for men who are successful in many areas of life but realise their relationship is one area they were never really taught how to navigate. Consider this a practical conversation about what’s actually going on, in simple terms.
“Do it. Start tomorrow, first chance you get. Most blokes have never worried about this stuff, but once you see results basically overnight it opens your eyes.”
Secure your spot.
Join the next Elite Alpha Workshop. 30 minutes. Live. Private. Practical.
*Attendance is limited to three Elite Alpha Workshops per person.
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